Ladies, want to be more sensitive to your guy? You might want to steer clear of the seven phrases that strike fear in the heart of every man.

According to a new survey by Redbook, men dread hearing the following:

  • #7

    “Be a man.”

  • #6

    “My parents want to meet you.”

  • #5

    “Do you find her attractive?”

  • #4

    “I have a headache.”

  • #3

    “Do you notice anything different about me?”

  • #2

    “We need to talk.”

  • #1

    “Do I look fat?”