South Jersey Culture

Why Is Saying “Ma’am” Offensive?
Why Is Saying “Ma’am” Offensive?
Why Is Saying “Ma’am” Offensive?
Growing up in Virginia, my parents always made sure that I always said "yes ma'am, no ma'am, yes sir, no sir".  It was a given, it was a must.  So, why is it that when I say "ma'am" today, it's considered offensive?